Dating rules drunk Where are the flash chat room for old women needing sex
I date for the occasional bit of company and to occasionally have sex, that's about it. Dog's are much easier to deal with than women at this point in my life.
Call me shallow, etc etc whatever, that's fine with me.
If $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ is what motivates you, I am not mad at you or knocking you for it, I am personally not interested. I am content to spend the rest of my life single, but that works for me.
For those disparaging the over 40 dating crowd, even 40 somethings get lonely at times, some more than others.
I was married and against my wishes the marriage ended.
I loved my wife deeply, she decided she no longer loved me and she wasn't "happy". I didn't ask to be in my 40s and single, but reality being what it is I live with it. I might have a steady girlfriend if the occasion arises, but she'd have to be pretty damn spectacular for me to make that leap.
I don't want to be around a woman who wants to prove to me she is as good as I am at "man" stuff. I myself am independent and feel no need to tell everyone about it. Being able to take care of yourself doesn't make you special, it makes you "grown folks".
I don't date these over the hill party girls because as an adult male, I know why men go to bars and clubs and as a mature adult woman you ought to as well.
If you do know and still sit there every weekend you are trying to be something you aren't (young, unless you are a drunk) and I have no desire to be with a woman who lives in a fantasy world.
He did tell you to be "keepers at home", if you are so caught up in church work that you are making your family the second priority in your life you aren't following your own rule book. I see no need to potentially work myself into an early grave to keep you in shiny trinkets and new cars. Saw the comments about people in their 40s dating and this is what came to mind.
I digress, fanaticism of any kind is a psychological addiction and I prefer to spend my time with people who lead a well balanced life. I am pretty content with a pot of beans and a nice clean, comfortable house in a decent neighborhood and a vehicle that works and is safe. I have no real interest in getting into another permanent relationship.